[–] 6248048? 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
I conceived every pregnancy of mine with a bmi of 21 or less. Healthy size women are more likely to have a healthy pregnancy. Unfortunately miscarriages can happen to even the healthiest of women. It isn't your fault. Miscarriages are just more common that you'd think. I'm sorry for your loss. And I hope you start feeling better soon.
[–] Visitresss 0 points 7 points 7 points (+7|-0) ago (edited ago)
She's a bitch, and that's not "normal" among skinny women, it's normal among ALL women: 20% of all pregnancies are lost in the first three months. Needless to say, it's not your fault, but she tried to stab you into becoming fat, because your health hurts her feelings.
There is NOTHING you could have done to prevent it. 1 out of 5 pregnancies is miscarriaged in the first term. You were unlucky, but the chances are really high. I mean, 20% is a pretty high chance. It's bound to happen to someone, and it was you.
I'm sorry for your loss, but please don't blame yourself. It's nature, you had nothing to do with it and there was nothing you could have done to prevent it.
[–] FuckingEatLess 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
Please report that for malpractice. I've suffered miscarriages and what she said is not only completely unprofessional, she is in no position to offer medical advice. Shd will continue to do this to other patients.
[–] theepilepticferret 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago
I'm so sorry that you are going through this. Just remember this is not your fault. hugs
[–] 6247900? 0 points 14 points 14 points (+14|-0) ago (edited ago)
Hugs, That is terrible. Complete bullshit too - but you know that. I got diabetes with my 1st pregnancy. With the 2nd I managed to avoid it by watching everything I ate like a hawk. The way a roomful of fats will watch the last slice of pizza.
My fat sister and her hog husband kept telling me I was starving my unborn child. They also gave me tons teehee of grief for breast feeding (it's disgusting apparently). These people - sorry these fat fucks - are idiots.
[–] RedditRunaway 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Oh man, I don't get the naysayers for breastfeeding. It was a publicly pushed thing...decades ago!! It's long since been debunked
[–] Visitresss 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
But... but... science has proven once and again and again and AGAIN that breasfeeding is one of the best things you can do for your baby! It protects them from illnesses, it raises their own defenses, it even raises their intelligence! Unless you're eating uranium for breakfast or are going into chemotherapy, breast feeding is one of the best gifts a mother can give her child? Did they really critizice you for it? Seriously? Sorry, that is SO stupid and ignorant I'm flabbergasted.
[–] 6248429? 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Many women with healthy lifestyles lose their embryos through no fault of their own. This was not within your control and cannot be helped.