[–] sizedouttaZero 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago (edited ago)
I hate the stories where shitlords/ladies dont give fats a taste of their own medicine. Fats deserve to be beat down back into their place whenever they step out of line, or else they think they can get away with both being an eyesore AND a public nuisance.
If violence isn't your thing, (which it honestly shouldn't be unless it's a dire situation), police reports should be. Don't let fats get away with anything.
edit because I still cannot English.
[–] sugarcoatedstrych9 [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
It was almost just a fight or flight response, and I chose flight this time. She also did have young kids with her, so to get into a screaming match in front of those kids would have made me feel like an absolute piece of shit. Even though this bitch totally deserved it, the kids saw everything as they were sitting in the car part of the cart, and maybe they'd have learned something from the confrontation, I don't think I could have been the better adult, the higher person, in that situation knowing how I felt at the time and what I would have been capable of at the time.
But I'm getting better at confrontation in general. I'm still not that good at it, and I do try to pick my battles. This should have been one, yes, but again, flight just took over and I just bailed. It won't be happening again, this was the final straw in my patience.
[–] sizedouttaZero 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
I understand where you're coming from, but sometimes (especially when dealing with obeasts) trying to be a decent human being is seen as weakness.
You have the patience of a saint, however.
[–] Fllmia 1 point 7 points 8 points (+8|-1) ago (edited ago)
Don't let shit like this stand. I had a similar incident when checking out what will be my new local grocery in Minnesota a month ago. This fucking lardbarge shouldered past me in an aisle while I'm down on my heels checking for low-carb wrap brands I like. The beast is half my height, but easily triple my weight and knocks me off balance.
You need to realize, I'm from fucking Miami. It isn't something I'm saying because I'm proud, it's because Miami is the rudest most confrontational city in this country. I don't put up with this shit and can give as good as I get.
I looked at the ham and said, loudly and very rudely, "Excuse yourself". The ham looked back and said "What?"
"I said excuse yourself."
It mooed back, angry now, "For what?"
"For being a rude fucking bitch, what do you think? You just shoved me."
It was getting pissed now, "You were in my way, you have problems."
"Yes, I definitely have problems, your fucking rudeness chief among them. You owe me an apology. You ask people to move out of the way, you don't shove them, you rude fucking bitch"
It tried to leave, I followed it until I found an employee and told him what she had done, she kept mooing I had "problems" and "anger issues".
Damn fucking straight. Next time don't pick a fight. I wish I could say the employee kicked her out, but he did tell her to be more polite. She looked pretty freaked something more would happen, or that I was unhinged, which was kind of what I was going for.
Lesson - scare the FUCK out of hams with anger when they give you an excuse.
[–] veganesthie 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
I would have fucking flipped her cart over. "I guess"? I've done worse for less.
[–] PCOSBelle 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
You didn't need to attack IT, you should have attacked its cart. Dump the cart. Pick the most beetusy treats out and take them away while saying, "You don't need this. Oh, and you definitely don't need this!" I honestly can't even imagine having someone purposely run into me like this. Just asking it a question doesn't fucking do anything.
[–] vegetariancatlover 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
Dude this fucking me furious as all hell. I'm not sure how you managed to keep calm