[–] moremetalguitar 0 points 10 points 10 points (+10|-0) ago
Relationships are a two-way street, for both better and worse. She may have decided to "quit dieting", although at a starting weight of 140 I doubt there was much calorie counting to begin with, but he's got to be enabling her somehow.
He needs to figure out what he's doing that allows her to become an obeast and he needs to stop.
If he really loves her, it could come down to taking control of the finances, the shopping, the cooking, even taking away her car keys or better yet sell the car and make her walk everywhere.
Or he could divorce her big yeasty ass.
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[–] ButtarGollum 1 point 3 points 4 points (+4|-1) ago (edited ago)
I saw some tumblr tard post this on FB before and I confronted her about it. The reeing was epic and she quickly blocked me (posted by a friend of a friend but her comments weren't restricted to friends only so I got to troll). I laugh when people act like only men can be the abusers in relationships. If anything women are more likely to use the children against the men, abuse men financially, guilt trip and coerce them (back to children). I have multiple male coworkers going through divorces (all instigated by the women) and it's the same story everytime, woman demands sole custody of kids, wants more than 50% of male's earnings, etc.
[–] 5972142? 0 points 12 points 12 points (+12|-0) ago
I love how fats act like you can't eat anything but celery in order to lose weight. They frame calorie restriction as if it was calorie denial. But when this thing gains 170 lbs in 4 years they say, 'well, that is only 400 calories a day of overeating.'
[–] invisiblecalories 0 points 8 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago
I'd rather enjoy my life than live off two almonds and a slice of air teehee.
I had an ice cream sandwich and non-pareils for breakfast because I felt like it. I'm so deprived!
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[–] journalistsarelazy 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Yeah, there's a whole lot of assumption going on that beta is somehow thin or swole. I highly doubt it. Married beta is probably a fat too.
[–] Generic_FPH8er 0 points 13 points 13 points (+13|-0) ago
Also take out a big life insurance policy on her.
[–] 32DDbitches 0 points 9 points 9 points (+9|-0) ago (edited ago)
Lol, no. At her weight, the underwriters would wash their hands of her. They don't insure people with death wishes, slow or fast. BASE jumping or eating yourself to death. It's all the same risk class to them.
Source: Work in life insurance industry.
[–] Shitlord2016 0 points 16 points 16 points (+16|-0) ago
I'm honestly surprised that no one has told him that she's perfectly healthy at that size yet. If you have gained 170 pounds in 4 years you need to have your feelings hurt. They need to be hurt really bad, so that maybe you hate yourself enough to change.
Why do you think I work out six days a week and track everything that goes into my mouth? I hate my body and demand perfection from it. I can always find 5-6 things to work on. I think it's healthy to have a certain amount of disdain for your body, otherwise you become complacent and fat.
[–] SUPREME_SHITLORD ago
Yeah dude my SO gained 5 pounds in like 3 months and it started bothering the shit out of me so I shitlorded him DAILY until he started going to the gym. 5 pounds may not be much but had I let that shit slide 5 turns to 10, 10 turns to 20 and so on til you reach 170 pounds like this pig. No matter how much the weight gain is, if you let that shit go for a second, your SO will think its okay to gain weight and turn into a fuckin behemoth
[–] mystic_chihuahua 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
One of the comments-
I'm surprised /r/relationships turned you down; this seems like a definite relationship question.
There would've been a ton of REEEEing about how the wife's weight is fine if r/relationships had allowed this post. Obviously, a mod got all triggered and told him to get help elsewhere.
[–] Melbourne43 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago (edited ago)
That's surprising to me and interesting how different feelings drive us. I love my body, I marvel at its abilities and want to thank it for looking after me by treating it right and not abusing it. I mostly don't track what I put in it, although I do weigh and chart it. If I hit a certain weight (79 kgs, 174 lbs) I track what goes into it and ramp up the cardio until I'm back down to 76 kgs.
Of course, vanity is a huge motivator, I realise I'm much more attractive when my body's in shape and I want to leverage that. I'm not sure I could manage to be 'always on' like you seem to be. You're probably in better shape than me though so I suppose it's a spectrum all the way from this fat dollop to guys that are perfect physical specimens. I know which end of the curve I'd rather be at.
[–] Shitlord2016 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
Maybe I'm just fucked up mentally. Who knows. Maybe I wasn't told I'm a special snowflake enough times as a kid. It works for me though.
However. these fatties need a lot less acceptance and love and a lot more self loathing.
[–] 32DDbitches 0 points 7 points 7 points (+7|-0) ago
So much with the vanity. Sorry if some find that offensive, but I am already old, which I cannot fix. However, my body doesn't have to suffer for it. I refuse to let myself go. I will not buy bigger and bigger clothes! No! Am I buff? No, not really. Do I look good in my clothes? I think so. My BF thinks I'm hot as hell and his physical reaction makes me pretty sure he's being honest. I cannot imagine choosing food instead. No food on the planet is that good! None of it is worth being fat. Nothing, in fact, is worth being fat. Especially to the point of obesity. Christ. I just don't get it. And I'm glad of it.
[–] fruitsmacks 0 points 14 points 14 points (+14|-0) ago
you don't need to hate your body to constantly demand more and better from it. Whatever works for you though. I love my body that is why I maintain and improve it every day of my life and show it the respect it deserves as the only earthly container i'll ever have.
[–] 32DDbitches 0 points 5 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago
I don't think that was the literal point of the comment, but I definitely agree with you.
About two months ago, I injured my left arm. I couldn't bend it enough to put my hair up, or do much of anything for about two days. I was so mad at my arm for not doing all the simple things it had always done before! Imagine, killing off parts of yourself. Losing your functions and mobility all because of a desperate desire to overeat. Choosing food over mobility, in every sense. It's an epidemic and I'm perplexed as to why so many choose this wretched lifestyle.
[–] Big_Swinging_Dick 2 points 21 points 23 points (+23|-2) ago
Once she locked down her Beta bucks she ballooned. A tale as old as time.
[–] HighwayStar 1 point 4 points 5 points (+5|-1) ago
Not sure if I hate the bitches like this or the betas more.
[–] Thinnerbeauty666 0 points 15 points 15 points (+15|-0) ago (edited ago)
Beta and obeast 🎵🎵🎵
[–] Speshul_Sn0wflake 0 points 28 points 28 points (+28|-0) ago
Yea, if she's gained 170 in four years, there's no hope for it whatsoever. How anyone can gain that much weight and act like it's just a part of getting older, I'll never know. It's disgusting. Obviously she has no respect for herself or for her SO. Oh well, no surprise there - fats are always gonna fat.
[–] SocialJustice_Wario 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
170 pounds in 4 years? that's putting in some serious effort
[–] SUPREME_SHITLORD 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Yeah dude thats 42 pounds a YEAR. How much is this bitch eating? A fucking baby cow daily???
[–] 32DDbitches 0 points 6 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago (edited ago)
I know! Gaining a full grown man's total weight? Madness! I just.....I think I just went full on white girl, I so much can't even right now.
[–] Speshul_Sn0wflake 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Haha its okay, I go full white girl too when I get so angry that I can't think straight. Or as the hams call it "everyday trigguhs".
[–] retailslave 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago
Oh my god Becky, did Uggs LITERALLY just appear on your literal feet?!
[–] hypercat 0 points 10 points 10 points (+10|-0) ago
STAHPPPP. THE COMMENTS. SOOOO BADDDD. Who the fuck eats the same portions as someone over 6 inches their height or 40 lbs theigh weight? Really? Is it an eating contest? Are you shoving yourself? WTF in The WTF. No woman of 5'4" would EVER fucking try to eat the same portion as a man of 6'2" unless she as fucking insane or a fucking moron.
This just makes me hurt in the brain. Oh look feed the little dog 1/2 cup, feed the big dog 1 1/2 cup. SENSE? YES. Human? EAT ALL THE FOOOOOOD.
I am 50 lbs lighter than my man person. My BMI is 19 or 20 his is 24. Our pizza fest on Sunday was: Me 1 slice and 3 bread-sticks. He, 3 slices and one bread stick. That was pretty much all we ate for the whole day. With tons of leftovers for the lunch and dinner next day. Difference: Me 170 for 3 sticks (really? I find this hard to believe), 100 for ranch (suck it, we don't hate food), 300 for slice (medium, could be 350). So my whole meal for the day plus 2 glasses of wine was a bit low at around 1100 ( am thinking the sticks are closer to 100 a stick). And he ate 1000 cal in pizza, 300 cal in beer, and a midnight snack of leftover radish salad and 2 more bread sticks. I suspect he ate a cookie but can't prove it. however even if he had 2000 cal, and I had 1400, we would be perfectly fine to gorge on Sunday pizza. If I had 2000, I would explode and probably get ill.
[–] journalistsarelazy 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
"I suspect he ate a cookie but can't prove it."
LOL!
You wanted the cookie, didn't you?
It's ok, you can tell me.