[–] 5975216? 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago (edited ago)
We're splitting hairs here, choosing the lesser of two evils. I agree with your last sentence.
Enablers are pretty vile, but they are just opportunists, using the fatties for their own sick purposes, mostly because it's easier than doing the right thing. Enablers can certainly be a problem, but it is up to each individual, mental capacity and health notwithstanding, to recognize self-destructive behaviors and stop them, especially when they're repeatedly pointed out to them.