[–] MorticiaMarina 0 points 7 points 7 points (+7|-0) ago
Fatties always seem to have "nice" hair, don't they? My guy says it's because it's the one thing that won't fat, just like their nails.
[–] moremetalguitar 0 points 7 points 7 points (+7|-0) ago
It is not courageous to wear a item of clothing. Courage, for this butterbeast, would be admitting that it looks and feels like shit and that it's destroying its body and life by being huge. And then doing something about it.
[–] hypercat 0 points 5 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago
I was going through old clothing and I found a skirt from Anthropologie I got years ago, I never wear it but I tested it to see if it fit. It did because I haven't gained since I bought it. DAMN, they were vanity sizing for years, there is no goddamn way I am a size 2, let alone a 4 according to a dress I got last month. Yet, here I am. I guess 2-4 is the new 8. I can’t imagine what an 8 now looks like. All my stuff from my mom from the 70’s is like 12-14 and sometimes snug. Maybe it’s based on pattern size?
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[–] ShitArchon 0 points 5 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago
Rape Culture
Hating Islam
Where does she think taharrush came from? The Evil White Cisheteropatriarchy?
[–] Captain_Janeway 0 points 18 points 18 points (+18|-0) ago
So the fact that SHE, HERSELF, was hesitant about buying the shorts is OK. But if a stranger expresses the same sentiment, it sends her reeeeeeeeing into a shame spiral. She should have listened to her own hesitation. And who the hell would compliment her head full of wild dried-up split ends?
[–] biddle 0 points 5 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago (edited ago)
Fuck, my legs are jacked shit. I'm knock-kneed, bow-legged, I have little kid legs. I do not give a fuck. I'm not obsessed with my appearance like hams are. I don't need to be told that I have perfect smoking hot legs to wear whatever shorts I want; I just don't feel all the inner shame that it's my fault because it's not. However, the cellulite is their fucking fault, and they know that everyone knows it. So they go over and over again, "no you're wrong, I don't overeat, I do exercise enough, I don't have poor impulse control," because they know that we know their dirty little secrets. Notice that this isn't Ugly People Hate. There's no Ugly Pride movement. We're tired of your bad habits using and abusing the world.
[–] NoLiquorLeft 0 points 5 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago
Agreed. I do what I can to make myself look presentable by controlling what I can (eg weight) but I'm not gonna get butthurt when someone tells me I look too pale or freckley because that's not something I feel any shame about. You don't feel shame when things are ACTUALLY out of your control.
[–] biddle 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago
I don't know. I've read some interesting things about how black kids feel about their skin color and shit like that. The group of people with poor self-maintenance habits don't need to be empowered though since they're not actually marginalized. They're simply embarrassing themselves. I don't know what kind of bullshit enfattenment they're preaching, but happy people realize you can only control yourself, not others. If you feel embarrassed, stop embarrassing yourself. No one likes to feel that way, yet pretty near all humans find it funny or cringey when it's not them. Tough shit.