It's not because he's a man, some people just enjoy schadenfreude more than others; and my guess is he doesn't understand how much it upsets you.
Perhaps you could sit down with him, and explain to him that it hurts you way more than he seems to think it does, and that him continuing to do stuff like that is putting your relationship in jeopardy?
[–] TiagoTiago 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
It's not because he's a man, some people just enjoy schadenfreude more than others; and my guess is he doesn't understand how much it upsets you.
Perhaps you could sit down with him, and explain to him that it hurts you way more than he seems to think it does, and that him continuing to do stuff like that is putting your relationship in jeopardy?