[–] svelte_vogue 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
I know! They've totally ignored that ALL women dress in ways that are flattering to their body. I'm tall, so I'd be a moron if I thought what looked great on my petite friend would look great on me. I'm like it isn't mean, it's just common sense.
Fatties gotta dumb.
[–] marquise [S] 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
Girrllll, you go and wear the tiniest skirt you can find. Don't let the patriarchy shame you! Go out and flash all your lady parts. Hell, do it at a business meeting! At a funeral even!
Honestly, if fats could really hear what they say sometimes. Lol.
[–] Endogrinsignal 1 point 4 points 5 points (+5|-1) ago
I have wide hips and I just made myself a tulle skirt. It looks alright but that's because I custom designed it with a wide lower waistband, hits just below the knee, not a lot of volume etc. Like I'll never understand not dressing for your body type. I'm super tall and some things (eg rompers / playsuits whatever) will never work. I've got big boobs (guhnetics - contemplating reduction) and wide hips; styles that flatter an hourglass work. Sheath dresses or empire styles generally make me look pregnant or like a box. There's power in knowing your weaknesses... but on the other hand, when you look like a melted candle or a fridge in everything then what's the difference?
[–] la_fupacabra ago
I'm 31-25-36 and let me tell you, anything even remotely poofy around the skirt makes me look like I gained 20lbs. so I know your pain. Also empire waisted shit just looks like crap on 99% of people (to me). However, tight bodycon dresses look awesome so I can't complain lol
[–] ThindianaBones 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
You get called slutty or people talk shit cause you wear lots of tight clothes, and look great in them, but its because almost everything except body con, skinny jeans, etc. look like shit cause you look like you gained 30 ilbs.... story of my life ):
[–] ThindianaBones 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Wide hips =/= fat
I have a 23-24 inch waist, and 33 inch hips. I can wear some wide tulle or whatever type skirt, if the waist fits right... others make me look like I gained 30 ilbs
[–] justforhighkicks 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
It was ffa, yeah? I wish I could filter out every fucking plus-sized thread/comment in that subreddit.
[–] green_iris 0 points 4 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago (edited ago)
I just made an account to respond to this. It's so awful, I'm sorry. A healthy psyche pivots back and forth between subjective and objective modes. They are now triggered by the very thought of an objective glance. Jfc. Are we supposed to speak in code now?
[–] green_iris 1 point 2 points 3 points (+3|-1) ago
Maybe it should be called "uncommon sense" now? I said in another post tonight, I'm recovering from (real) anorexia, and I'm actually interested in how things look on bodies as an inducement to health. You're giving tips on an art. Is there a voat for this?
[–] shart_in_a_fat_roll 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago
Tumblrinas are a weird fucking breed.
They take entitlement to levels I didn't know could even exist. They've blown right past material things, and actually feel entitled to attraction from others. It's so very strange.
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[–] BuzzingBeaver 0 points 15 points 15 points (+15|-0) ago
It took you this long to figure out that they take everything as an attack? Well, welcome home.
[–] lefthandpath 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Well, they do make easy targets due to their enormous size.
[–] ThindianaBones 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
If it was the ahem, women's fashion sub, they do take the "womens" quite seriously. As in "unless you are fat, you are not a women's you are a miss and must call yourself ugly "
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[–] marquise [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Doing it right! :D
There's no such thing as a "good" or "bad" body shape if the individual is healthy and fit. Everyone has flaws and strengths. I'm sure you looked awesome in your wedding gown just based on the fact that you are human-sized.
I have two long tutu skirts from Free People. One is a midi and the other is a maxi. Of course, since it's Free People, it's gonna look ridiculous on any body shape. Haha.