[–] barset 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago (edited ago)
I always thought I would marry an awesome girl that would be loyal to me and I to her, but it seems to me that this just isn't possible anymore, or if it is then extremely rare situations and what are the odds of meeting that girl, every fucking guy wants that girl.
A key thing to interject into this is "for you." We are all puzzle pieces. Some fit, some don't, some do, but the picture doesn't quite match up.
I've been in a relationship where nothing was wrong and everything was right about it, even when we fought we made it work, but I blew it because I felt like at 21 I should date around some more because how do I know if this is best in life if I have no comparison? Regretted it ever since. Didn't cheat, ended it. She's been divorced and remarried since and I think maybe we should have stayed together and our lives would both be better.
I digress. The biggest problem is you can't catch fish if you don't go fishing, and this is where someone would insert a gif of a fish landing in someone's lap while riding in a boat, but you gotta own a boat and those kind of bitches are slippery.
It sucks. Go out, meet, talk, fuck, maybe it works maybe it doesn't, repeat until desired results.